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I am writing this list for two reasons ... #1 This Sunday I will start a new series called BIG LOVE and I'm starting with the married folks ... #2 because so many people meet with me due to their marriages being on what we call the rocks. And many times there is always one spouse in the meeting who acts as if they don’t know how they got here or why their marriage is almost destroyed. These are not in any kind of severity order…. Cause they all are harsh and could result in the destruction of your marriage! So please don’t practice them.

#1 – Decline to communicate to your spouse about anything…

#2 – Refuse to run from tempting situations!

#3 – Watch LOTS of porn!

#4 – Connect with “old flames” through online social networking and then convince yourself it is ok because you aren’t actually doing anything wrong!

#5 – Start lying about everything.

#6 – Have an affair!!!

#7 –Spend lots of personal time with the same person of the opposite sex that you are not married to…

#8 – Make “innocent” remarks to an attractive person such as, “I wish I had met you before I had gotten married.”

#9 – Put an ad for yourself on an internet dating site…even though you are married…just to see what type of interest you could create!

#10 – Compare your spouse with other people OFTEN and convince yourself that you didn’t get God’s best when you agreed to marry him/her.

#11 – Did I say have an affair???

#12 – Take God out of your marriage.

#13 – Keep spending all the money.

#14 – Stop praying for each other.

#15 – Let other people control what happens in your home.

#16 – Stay out all night without your spouse knowing where you are.

#17 – Spend more time trying to change your spouse than you do changing yourself.


What are other ways to destroy your marriage?

Don't miss this new series BIG LOVE .... every Sunday in Feb.



WEEK 1: I DO .... I DON'T
WEEK 2: FINDING MR....MRS. RIGHT
WEEK 3: MAN & WOMEN VS. BOY & GIRL
WEEK 4: SexED

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